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Finding Happiness (After Becoming SingleD)

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 by Nancy David Galang, M.A. "Happiness is not trying or finding, it's deciding." - Osiris I know that many singleD people out there are like me --- nag-aakala na hindi na sila muling magiging masaya. Paano ko ba hinanap at patuloy na hinahanap ang happiness ko? Ang title ng blog na ito ay "Finding Happiness." To find means "to get or discover something or someone that you are looking for" (merriam-webster.com).  So this means ang salitang "find" ay isang verb. One has to take action to get it. Pagkatapos ng isang hindi maganda at masalimuot na experience, we have to make that decision to move on and be happy once again. When I got separated almost 5 years ago, I thought that it was the end of the world for me. Yes, para sa mga hindi pa naka-experience ng major heartbreak (like ang mahiwalay sa iyong asawa at ama ng apat mong anak), I just want to let you know that it is not an exaggeration kapag sinabi ko na parang guguho ang mundo mo. Gust