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                By Nancy D. Galang Five exes, two true loves, 1 greatest love. What  have I learned, really?  1.  Do not look for love because it will find you.  Kung talagang di pa dumarating ang inyong Ayuda One (Are You the One), 'wag n'yo na i-push, mga Nan-sis. I learned that I failed in many relationships because I was always looking for love, and I was probably in love with the concept of being in love.  If someone is meant for you, magtatagpo ang inyong landas sa tamang panahon. When I met the one I married for the first time, I just came from a breakup which I initiated, but found to be a wrong move. So therefore, I was broken-hearted.  1990. Fresh from break-up with boyfriend number 4, I jumped right into another relationship.  Then the one I married came, and out of wanting to be in a romantic relationship, sinagot ko s'ya. Looking back, I was not healed yet from my previous relationship. So, ang point...

By Nancy D. Galang, M.A. Happy New Year, mga Nan-sis! Una sa lahat, allow me to congratulate everyone for surviving the new normal of 2020! Buhay pa tayo, kumakain araw-araw, nakakahinga nang maluwag (kahit kadalasan ay naka-mask), at kasama ang ating mga mahal sa buhay. Masaya at excited nating iwan ang 2020! I am sure you agree with me that for most of us, it was not a good year. Yet, we can still be grateful that we are moving forward. Welcoming 2021 with a nice, big smile! And to be able to truly do this, hindi ba maganda na mag-isip at maglista ng ating wishes--mga inaasam-asam na bagay, tao, hayop, lugar, at siyempre ang higit na mahalaga, mga intangibles. Ano nga ba ang mga karaniwang nasa wish list ng mga singleD? 1. To have a Jowa. I am very sure na unang-una sa inyong wish list ang maging "doubleD". Ano, mga Nan-sis? Tumpak? Kahit di natin aminin, or mag-inarte tayo at mag-dialogue na "Ang saya kaya maging singleD, di ka kailangan magpaalam, you can decide on t...

              By Nancy D. Galang, M.A. "I think that as you grow older, your Christmas list gets shorter, because the things you want can't be bought." - Author unknown Mga Nan-sis! It's a few days before Christmas! And Christmas used to be my favorite time of the year.   Until four years ago.  Ano ba ang ganap sa akin four years ago? If you have read my very first blog, it was December 22 when my ex started discussing our separation. It was December 25 when he said he was just staying for the kids. Hindi ko na babanggitin na December 27 supposed to be ang 23rd wedding anniversary namin. (Ay nabanggit ko na!) But we never got to celebrate it na.  (To read more on this story click this link:  https://nancydavidgalang.blogspot.com/2020/04/becomingsingled-6-2020-nancy-d.html?m=1 ) Since then, hindi ko na favorite ang Christmas time. Paano naman, perfect timing si ex sa drama n'ya, don't you agree? Na-trauma tuloy ako.  But growing...